As Is Where Is Condition..!

In many an auction you hear the auctioneer offering some particular piece in an ‘as is where is condition’! Which means that it is being sold in its current condition, whatever this condition happens to be. But do we accept people as they are? Do we take our husbands as the condition they are in, or our wives?
On her 50th wedding anniversary, a woman revealed the secret of her long and happy marriage. She said, “On my wedding day, I decided to make a list of ten of my husband’s faults which, for the sake of the marriage, I would overlook.”
One of her guests asked her what some of the faults she chose to overlook were. “To tell you the truth,” she replied, “I never did get around to making that list. But whenever my husband did something that made me hopping mad, I would say to myself, ‘Lucky for him that’s one of the ten!'”
It’s nice to decide what to overlook. In relationships, I get plenty of practice overlooking the foibles of other people. And I suspect they get plenty of practice with me, too.
As they hung wallpaper together, one husband became frustrated with his wife. She seemed, to him, to be indifferent about the quality of her work. He felt she was doing a poor job. He finally put it into words this way: “The problem is that I’m a perfectionist and you’re not.”
“Exactly!” she replied. “That’s why you married me and I married you!”
Miss Perfect certainly did one thing well. She knew how to overlook annoying observations from her perfectionist husband.
Even pottery may be closer to perfection than we humans, if Belleek Pottery in Ireland is any example. I hear that every finished piece there undergoes a final inspection. It is held up to a fierce, bright light and examined for imperfections. If even the slightest flaw is detected, the cup or plate or vase or sugar bowl is smashed to pieces. That’s right. The blemished piece is never sold as a “second.” If Belleek pottery is not flawless, it is reckoned to be no good at all. No doubt other makers of fine china and crystal operate the same way.
I’m sure I wouldn’t be able to stand up to that kind of scrutiny. I have flaws I haven’t even begun to explore yet.
How much pain prompted the words of that sensitive artist Vincent van Gogh when he lamented, “I wish they would only take me as I am.”
How many times a day are those words repeated by countless people feeling the sting of rejection? To be accepted as one is and not discarded as useless is more than just a wish, it is a deep, human need.
Let’s try from today, to start taking people as they are, yes, in an as is where is condition..!


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3 thoughts on “As Is Where Is Condition..!”

  1. How blessed we are that our Creator loves and accepts us just the way we are. He loves us so much that he felt we are worth dying for. Once we get a taste of that kind of love, then it’s only natural that we begin to accept others too just the way they are.

  2. My husband bought things in as is where is condition. So a camera that didn’t work, a slow oven which turned what I started as a cake, into a cookie etc. We are not to judge others but love and pray for them,was what Jesus taught people.

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