It’s the festival season and it’s raining discounts and bargains!
I looked at huge ads, they showed pictures and prices of scores of items that were going cheap. There were beard trimmers at two hundred and forty nine bucks, vegetable cutting machines for less than five hundred, air-conditioners going dirt cheap, they said, T-shirts at one ninety nine, and cricket bats starting at two fifty!
Spectacular I thought to myself! It’s a real deal, said my greedy, bargaining mind.
“You’ve got every one of them!” whispered my common sense.
Yes, I had all of them, most in working condition, except the beard trimmer which needed a new set of batteries, and what I didn’t have I didn’t need!
I mean I don’t think I’d be able to do much more to my face with the face massager offered at two hundred and fifty, and how many more almonds would I be able to eat, even if they were from California, as the ad said, before I would hear my wife grumble I ate too much between meals, and that’s why I was so skinny!
Yet, I stared at the ad again and again, wondering why I shouldn’t take part in the lucrative deals, deals and deals offered.
The other day I’d seen a neighbor placing some sofas and dining chairs on his terrace. “They seem good!” I said. “The wife’s fed up with them!” he said. “Are they broken?” I asked. “They’re out of fashion!” he said.
I sank into one of the chairs, “Very comfortable!” I said. “Well she isn’t with them!” he said with a tone of finality, “And I got my bonus yesterday!”
I looked at the poor chairs as they stared back at me, “Thrown out because of a bonus!” they seemed to cry.
A few years ago, I read a document by Benjamin Franklin in which he called on the American people to build a nation, using hard work and thrift! Yes thrift; not the spending of money on objects which looked a little newer and fancier than what you had but by developing the quality of using money and other resources you had, carefully and not wastefully!
I remember walking into the house of an old couple, whose son in the US was an eminent doctor, and who’d asked me to visit his parents in India. “You live a very spartan existence!” I said looking round their sitting room in surprise.
“Maybe the money we’ve saved on the unnecessary, helped us fund the necessary, mainly our son’s studies!” said the father with a smile.
I turn away from the beard trimmer and vegetable grinding machine seductively glancing at me; quite a bargain what? But I know it will destroy my peace of mind later!
And then I shake my head disapprovingly at a political leader who tells the nation that spending will help boost the economy! ‘Who’s economy?” I ask, “The economy of the Ambani’s Adani’s and Amazon?”
“Thrift will!” I tell her.
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Good morning Robert,
Yr beautiful message towards Diwali discount is superb.yes why should we get fooled by these sale product,they will only have during the festive season.
And people get carried away,and make Ambani and Adani rich so that they can spend lavisly for their occasion.The man to be admired is Mr Tata.
Exactly Jasmine. We forget, we all grew up on thrift.
I needed this reminder today!
Me too Aditi. Thank you
I got a eatable product by some one on teachers day which I could guess must have been purchased on concession sales. It was a packed food. When I opened it the eatables no doute was of standard brand but was rotten. I had to throw it. Sales tempt us to spend money unnecessary. We should use our money very carefully.????
Ah, that’s a new side to discounts, which we get fooled by. Thanks Mr Kukreja.
Hmmm, yeah!
Awesome caution for shopaholics like me.
Perfumes, clothes, gourmet, so cheap!!
Amazon, Bigbasket, Flipkart, “a visual treat”
I pile items into cart, I’m not gonna keep.
Your words of wisdom on DIWALI, so concrete.
“Being thrifty is being wise,” indeed!
I remember going for a sale of two sarees for the price of one. Actually the price of that saree was not worth one so ordinary. We must look at the expiry date of food items that we buy.’A fool and his money part soon, ‘ says the Bible.
Interesting theory, Kripa!
In Psychology, a spendthrift is one who spends without any guilt or anxiety since they are selfish but emotionally stable whereas a tightwad panics while spending and is prone to guilt, anxiety and low self-esteem.
Both behaviours are extreme and the “middle path” is the best course to adopt.
Simple logic is to not “spend more than you earn. Maintain a healthy balance.”
We have yet to learn the difference between Needs n Wants. We veer towards everything We want. That’s why we end up with overflowing trolleys. Sadly We don’t spend time on what we actually NEED. If we did we would discover that our Needs are very few n Basic. That would indeed make us wiser.