The Teakwood Box..!

“Dad?” asked my elder one, “what’s happened to the friend you used to be quite fond of, the one who was like a brother to you?”
“We’ve fallen apart!” I said gruffly.
“And you never tried to repair the relationship?” she asked.
“I did,” I said, “but I don’t think he was in any mood to work things out.”
“And you didn’t try harder?”
“No,” I said a little defiantly.
“A little like our teakwood box isn’t it?”
“The box?” I asked weakly.
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It lay proud and beautiful in the corner of my sitting room. Its woodwork was beautiful and the brass sides and hinges shone out like gold. Visitors who came over admired its surface and spoke about its antiquity.
But it hadn’t always been so.
I had inherited it as a dirty old cracked box from my dad. I stored whatever I needed to hide from sight; old toys, old pillows, old blankets, and the box lay in a storeroom, musty smelling, faded and falling apart. Then one day a bearded friend, an interior designer by profession saw the box. “Bob!” he shouted “you’ve got a treasure over there!”
And turning to his man, “Work on it,” he said.
The workman took out sandpaper and knife and started scraping. It had been painted and as he scraped the box, it started looking even uglier than before. “Leave it,” I told my friend wearily, “you’re just wasting time and money on something useless!”
“Carry on!” he told his man and the poor fellow continued on what seemed a useless job. I watched in agony for five full days and even joked it was the paint holding the box together and it would soon fall apart, but my friend wasn’t listening.
Five days later the box stood before me, shed off all its paint looking like a shorn chicken, even more unattractive and distasteful. I laughed at the ridiculous sight. “Okay,” said my friend to his workman, “start polishing!”
I couldn’t believe the transformation.
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As each coat of polish went onto wood, as brass was shined and worked at; ugly duckling turned into a beautiful swan.
That was many years ago.
I stared at the box and looked at my daughter and nodded, I knew what she meant when she felt a relationship needed the same working on, that the box had got. A broken friendship needed old hurts to be scraped away; with that would come vulnerability, before the making up and the forging of a new deeper friendship, like new coats of polish that would shine the teak and make it take centre place once again.
I picked up the phone and called long distance. I had tears as I gazed at my box and smiled at my daughter: A teakwood box was in the making..!

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5 thoughts on “The Teakwood Box..!”

  1. Yeah relationships if not maintained do fade away; time flies, priorities shift, communication reduces. Some people in fact are meant to be in our lives only to fulfill a purpose; like a phase. For the ones that really matter or to correct past mistakes, it’s upto us to take the first step to reconnect and rebuild bridges.

  2. Sometimes it’s better to be out of a toxic friendship than be the loser always . Relationship/ friendship is important but on mutual level playing terms .

  3. Friendship, whose very foundation is laid with boulders of mutual trust, pillars raised with great enthusiasm,cheer, concern, emotional proximity, and accessibility, walls built of security , decorated with laughter, and confetti of sharing, caring and togetherness is sometimes mowed down to a heap of despair when some misunderstanding mischievously creeps in .
    To rebuild or allow that little hobgoblin to get away with it is up to the friends concerned!

  4. Our best Friend, God, runs towards us as a Father so loving, forgiving and joyful, when we step towardsHim Jesus, His Peace Offering, came to us while we were still sinners, to wash away our sins, forget them and restore reconciliation, if we turn away from sin to Him.

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