Bullying, Sympathy and Compassion..! 

In a situation of injustice happening where I live, where I see a minor member of the ruling party bullying others around him, I see a lot of sympathy for the people concerned, but I wondered if there was compassion?

A mother was jogging through the park, pushing two toddlers in a stroller. As they approached a hill, she said, “OK, now I wish you could help me.” And the children sympathizing with their mother shouted, “Poor mother! Poor mother!”

Sympathy was there but it didn’t help, did it?

One person known for his compassion was LaGuardia, the mayor of New York City during the worst days of the Great Depression.

In many ways, LaGuardia was bigger than life – he rode the New York City fire trucks, raided city “speakeasies” with the police department, took entire orphanages to baseball games and, when the New York newspapers went on strike, he got on the radio and read the Sunday funnies to the kids.

One bitterly cold night in January of 1935, the mayor turned up at a night court that served the poorest ward of the city. LaGuardia took over the bench himself. Within a few minutes, a tattered old woman was brought before him, charged with stealing a loaf of bread. She told LaGuardia that her daughter’s husband had deserted her, her daughter was sick, and her two grandchildren were starving.

  But the shopkeeper, from whom the bread was stolen, refused to drop the charges. “It’s a real bad neighborhood, Your Honor,” the man told the mayor. “She’s got to be punished to teach other people around here a lesson.”

LaGuardia sighed. He turned to the woman and said, “I’ve got to punish you. The law makes no exceptions. Ten dollars!” But even as he pronounced sentence, the mayor tossed his own money into his famous hat, saying, “Here is the ten dollar fine which I now remit; and furthermore, I am going to fine everyone in this courtroom fifty cents for living in a town where a person has to steal bread so that her grandchildren can eat. Mr. Bailiff, collect the fines and give them to the defendant.”

The following day, New York City newspapers reported that $47.50 was turned over to a bewildered woman who had stolen a loaf of bread to feed her starving grandchildren. Fifty cents of that amount was contributed by the grocery store owner himself, while some seventy petty criminals, people with traffic violations, and New York City policemen, each of whom had just paid fifty cents for the privilege of doing so, gave the mayor a standing ovation. Sometimes it just takes more than sympathy to find a way.

 Someone beautifully said, “Sympathy sees and says, ‘I’m sorry.’ Compassion sees and says, ‘I’ll help.'”

When we learn the difference, we will make a difference..!

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3 thoughts on “Bullying, Sympathy and Compassion..! ”

  1. ‘What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.’ (James 2:14-17)

  2. Thank you Bobby for the educative, moralistic and inspiring story. I always feel Jesus is the answer over the world today. He didn’t come to condemn the world but that it may be saved through him.

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