“Dad, we’re looking for the perfect man!” my daughters would sigh a few years ago, and I would smile and tell them there’s no such thing as finding a perfect match, “you create excellence in your relationship with your spouse by the process of give and take!” And to illustrate…


Robert Clements is a newspaper columnist and writes a daily column, which has graced the pages of over 60 newspapers and magazines, from a daily column in the Khaleej Times, Dubai, the Morning Star, London, and in nearly every state in India, from The Statesman in Kolkata, to the Kashmir Times in Kashmir to the Trinity Mirror in Chennai.